How To Get Over Not Feeling Good Enough
One of the countless issues that I have cleared for innumerable clients is the belief that they are not good enough.
In my work as a medical intuitive healer, I have seen so many people who believe they aren’t good enough that I have come to the conclusion that just about everybody needs a healing to clear this attitude. Sometimes I feel like doing a group healing on the whole perplexity, because unless until someone has cleared that issue they can win the Nobel Peace Prize, the Miss America contest or whatever and still feel varying degrees of inadequate.
Because there is a whole wide world out there, someone is always going to be taller, shorter, richer, poorer, more well educated, less well educated, better looking, not as good looking, more experienced, less experienced, more well spoken or less eloquent….and you get my drift.
If we all had to slit our throats because we weren’t the best at whatever we do right out of the starting block, there would be no one left on the planet.
This afternoon, I was working by phone with a client suffering from this universal issue and this was how I explained it to her:
If you study vibrational healing, what you will discover is that specific people need specific vibrations.
For example, someone may need Vitamin D, or a medication, or an herb or a flower remedy.
The scientific research shows that you can either give the person the Vitamin D, the medication, the herb or the flower remedy OR you can give the person the specific vibration. That’s the science behind sound healing and behind all natural healing remedies that alter a person’s vibration.
Whether you recognize it or not, you are actually a vibration.
I hate to break it to you – I know you thought you were a person, a human being even, but at some level you are actually energy.
Your energy is of a different vibration than my energy.
It’s not better or worse, greater or lesser, it’s just different.
When someone needs you, they need your specific vibration.
If you are a cook, anybody else can make spaghetti, meatloaf or an apple pie, but your family will need your specific vibration and they probably need your spaghetti, your meatloaf or your apple pie just the way you make it – you know, with your own special recipe of love and attention that you put into whatever it is that you do.
It’s a complete waste of time trying to be anybody other than yourself. One of my favorite quotes by Oscar Wilde is: “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
If you are a yoga teacher, well then thousands of other yoga teachers also know how to teach the triangle. But people will come to you because of the way YOU and YOU ALONE can teach the triangle.
When you communicate with another person, there is always a vibrational exchange. You have experienced that because when you walk away from a conversation, you could feel energized or depleted, depending on which way the energy flowed.
When you actually recognize that people need your energy, they need your specific vibration, they need you to cook the way that you cook, to teach the way that you teach and look the way that you look in all your warts and glory, then you can disregard any concern about being good enough.
You don’t need to be good enough, you just need to be yourself.
Just be the best you. That’s all you really need to do, and all that the world every really requires. Give the world the gift of your own unique energy and see what happens.
What is healing? Healing happens when you honor the gift of your specific vibration.